How to Restore a Problem-Free Sex Life

Sex Mastery for Men - Hard AND in Control Made Easy

Looking to connect with confidence? I've got you covered!

The easiest way to restore control over your penis to restore a happy and satisfying sex life starts here.

I’m excited to share new insights with you.

With the correct knowledge and techniques in place, you will be able to connect with confidence and restore a happy, satisfying, and mutually fulfilling sex life!

Jacqui Olliver

I'm Jacqui Olliver and so glad you're here. I’ve helped thousands of men, women and couples restore emotional and sexual satisfaction in their lives and I'm totally confident I can help you, too.

As the founder of the Psychosexual Alignment method, I enrich relationships by solving emotional and sexual challenges WITHOUT DRUGS. The majority of my clients report significant improvement or their issue resolved within 1-3 consultations.

To truly connect with confidence, you need to understand sex from the female as well as male perspective. My Sex Mastery Hard and in Control online program contains the advanced Sex Education knowledge that you have been waiting for!

Most therapists are very good at validating your feelings, providing helpful insights and offering counseling, medications or techniques to treat the symptoms which can all be beneficial - to a point.

Unfortunately, they often do not address the “root cause” of sex problems, which is using the wrong technique at the wrong time... This is what I correct.

"I am so grateful Jacqui, I am seeing my girlfriend tomorrow and feel like the problem is pretty much gone! I can't believe it I thought I was broken!!!


I have searched on sooo many sites and got so much bad advice and feel like posting the link of your site on all of those others. As this is a horrible problem and your method will work for me - so guys need to know this! Many, many thanks for the help.

One week later:
I'm cured Jacqui!! Any position for as long as I want! So happy I honestly thought I was broken 🙂 Thank you doesn't cover it... You have no idea what this means to me."

ADAM*

USA

If you've been confused by all the other "Experts" online and offline who leave you wondering if your problem is every going to be solved... then you will be relieved to know that in Sex Mastery Hard AND in Control, each lesson builds upon the previous lesson so you have a clear, step-by-step procedure detailing exactly  how to achieve your ideal outcomes!

From foreplay, to penetration, to intercourse and ejaculation, gain the exact techniques required for staying hard and in control!

Includes multiple formats for ease of use and learning:

VIDEO

AUDIO

SLIDES

TRANSCRIPT

From getting and staying hard, to controlling ejaculation, program modules and lessons include bonus resources for approaching women sexually... as well as the best masturbation techniques!

Restore your sexual confidence today, whether you are single or in a relationship:

P1 L1: Rewire Your Brain for Success

The thoughts you consistently have about sex directly influence your sexual ability as well as the results you’re trying to achieve! In this lesson, we’re going to refocus your attention so you can nurture a positive mindset, and achieve your ideal outcomes!

Rewire your brain

P1 L1: Rewire Your Brain for Success
Total lesson time: 12:04

👉 Why Upgrade Your Thinking and Change Your Self Talk?

👉 How Are You Currently Imagining Sex to Be?

👉 Imagination and Intention Are Keys to Success

👉 Increasing Your Confidence


👉 Power Up Your Self-Talk Throughout the Day

P1 L2: Psychosexual Alignment

In the previous lesson, we refocused your attention so you can nurture a positive mindset and move towards creating your ideal outcome.

In this lesson, I’ll explain Psychosexual Alignment, how our programs develop, the male and female programs related to sex and the sexual problems we both encounter. We’ll also start solving anxiety.

Psychosexual Alignment

P1 L2: Psychosexual Alignment
Total lesson time: 16:53

👉 So How Do Our “Programs” Develop?

👉 The Female Sexual Programs

👉 Understanding Female Sex Problems

👉 The Male Sexual Programs


👉 Understanding Male Sex Problems 

👉 Your “Programs” Related to Sex

👉 Solving the Anxiety Problem

P1 L3: The Sexual Arousal Scale

In the previous lesson, I explained Psychosexual Alignment, how our programs develop, the male and female programs related to sex and the sexual problems we both encounter. We also started to solve anxiety.

In this lesson, I’ll explain the sexual arousal scale from the male and female perspectives, and how to control your movement along the arousal scale by balancing the sexual trifecta. We’ll also address penis sensitivity and how to check your penis to stay in control of it.

The Sexual Arousal Scale

P1 L3: The Sexual Arousal Scale
Total lesson time: 22:19

👉 Understanding Female Arousal

👉 Understanding Male Arousal

👉 The Sexual Trifecta

👉 Sexual Focus and the Arousal Scale for Women


👉 Sexual Focus and the Arousal Scale for Men 

👉 Understanding Penis Sensitivity 

👉 Checking Your Penis 

👉 Controlling Your Movement Along the Sexual Arousal Scale 

"I wanted you to know that I bought your men’s course a few days ago and it has already improved things for my wife and me. I had a lot of PE issues and didn’t know what it was.


Understanding the root cause has helped and learning the techniques to change! Awesome! Had great sex and lasted much longer. Still learning to be better but so far amazing results."

jeff*

AUSTRALIA

P1 L4: The General Rules for Your Sexual Programs

In the previous lesson, I explained the sexual arousal scale from the male and female perspectives, how to control your movement along the arousal scale by balancing the sexual trifecta; as well as penis sensitivity and how to check your penis to stay in control of it.

In this lesson, I’ll explain the general rules which apply to balancing your sexual focus and checking your penis; during foreplay, penetration, intercourse, and ejaculation.

General rules for sex programs

P1 L4: The General Rules for Your Sexual Programs Total lesson time: 9:43

👉 Foreplay is About Both Partners 

👉 Penetration - Use Lube!

👉 Intercourse - Even Rhythm

👉 Ejaculation - All About You

"I spent this last weekend with my girlfriend and everything went great. I was able to get hard and last for 15-20 minutes on 5 different occasions!


I still think I have work to do but it helped my confidence greatly to know that these techniques are working. Thank you again for your help."

patrick g*

USA

P1 L5: Moving Toward Sex Mastery

In the previous lesson, I explained the general rules which apply to balancing your sexual focus and checking your penis; during foreplay, penetration, intercourse, and ejaculation.

Now it’s time to move toward sex mastery!

Moving toward sex mastery

P1 L5: Moving Toward Sex Mastery
Total lesson time: 20:00 (Video 2:53)

👉 Links to Part 1 Bonus Resources:

👉Worksheet 1: Identify the Problem and the Causes 

👉 Male Control Checklist

👉 Best Masturbation Practices for Hard AND in Control

👉 25 Truths Revealed for Hard AND in Control

"I was impressed with everything about your program from start to finish. How you laid out the reasons for losing hardness all the way through practical techniques for being able to stay hard during sex. 


The videos/slides are easy to understand and as I neared the end of part two, I was already feeling more confident on why I was losing hardness and how I can correct it. The worksheets were also very helpful."

tom*

CANADA

P2 L1: Understanding Our Requirements for Sex

To create true equality in our intimate relationships, we need to understand both partner’s requirements for sex.

In this lesson, we’re going to bust through the most common myth that is contaminating women’s perception of men, understand tastes, fantasies and desires; as well as threat-based vs reward-based programming.

Understanding our requirements for sex

P2 L1: Understanding Our Requirements for Sex
Total lesson time: 17:00

👉 Oxytocin, Attraction, and Initiating Sex

👉 Tastes, Fantasies and Desires

👉 Threat-Based vs Reward-Based Programming 

"Sex used to be daunting for me and I avoided it largely during my last relationship which ended because of the problem. It's life changing to be confident and relaxed during sex with my new partner."

rajesh*

UNITED KINGDOM

P2 L2: Dealing with Anxiety

In the previous lesson, we busted through the most common myth that is contaminating women’s perception of men; tastes, fantasies and desires; as well as threat-based vs reward-based programming.

Now in this lesson, we’re going to stop anxiety from taking you off your game with the power of the Emotional Reset Technique - ERT.

Dealing with anxiety

P2 L2: Dealing with Anxiety
Total lesson time: 25:02

👉 Emotions and Sex

👉 How Do I Stop Anxiety from Taking Me Off My Game? 

👉 Reduce Anxiety in Sex with the Emotional Reset Technique 

P2 L3: Dealing with Common Libido Killers

In the previous lesson, you learned how to stop anxiety from taking you off your game with the power of ERT, the Emotional Reset Technique.

To increase your overall desire for sex it’s also important to remove the obstacles that have been stopping you from feeling attracted and attractive. So in this lesson, we’ll deal with common libido killers, how to feel confident and sexy and how to enhance each other’s libido!

Dealing with common libido killers

P2 L3: Dealing with Common Libido Killers
Total lesson time: 22:04

👉 Body Odor and Libido

👉 How to Feel Confident and Sexy 

👉 How to Enhance Each Other’s Libido

"To me, sex means to share intimacy, pleasure and connecting with my wife. Providing good sex makes me feel like a man who's more respected, loveable and willing.


Now I am confident in the act knowing I have the control to fulfill both our sexual needs!"

NICHOLAS*

AUSTRALIA

P2 L4: Timing Your Penetration

In the previous lesson, we dealt with common libido killers, how to feel confident and sexy, and how to enhance each other’s libido!

In this lesson, you’ll learn how to time your penetration, which is an essential step for reducing anxiety and restoring desire!

Timing your penetration

P2 L4: Timing Your Penetration
Total lesson time: 5:47

👉 Remember That Sex is a Game of Strategy

"I spent a lot of time “resetting” my brain after a long time of watching porn and it didn’t do a thing. This program was different, it definitely exceeded my expectation."

dean*

UNITED STATES

P2 L5: How to Get Hard and Stay Hard

In the previous lesson, we dealt with timing your penetration to reduce anxiety and restore desire. In this lesson, we’re going to address erection hardness so you can easily get an erection, then stay hard during foreplay, penetration, and intercourse, and ejaculate when you and your partner reach an agreement.

If getting and staying hard are not an issue for you and you are more concerned with staying in control of ejaculation, please skip ahead to the following lesson: How to Stay in Control of Ejaculation so you don’t confuse your brain!

get hard and stay hard


P2 L5: How to Get Hard and Stay Hard
Total lesson time: 26:31

👉 Intensity and Intention 

👉 Hard-Wiring Erection Hardness

👉 The Best Exercise for Hard Erections

👉 How to Increase Your Sexual Focus 

👉 Foreplay: Remember Yourself!

👉 Penetration: Staying Hard and in Control 

👉 Intercourse is About Both Partners

👉 Ejaculating on Command 

👉 Tips for Maintaining Hardness 


"The PDF’s are super helpful! This is definitely a good program because it teaches how the mind works. Something I’m sure most of us know, but don’t understand how it affects our sex life. It all makes sense now! 


We’ve only had sex once since the course I took on Friday. But it was a good success for both of us. First, I was able to get very hard, so yay. During, I had started to go a bit soft a couple times (when I wasn’t penetrating) and started to go into my mind of worry, then I adjusted what I was doing and the hardness came right back. So success there!"

Josh*

UNITED KINGDOM

P2 L6: How to Stay in Control of Ejaculation

In the previous lesson, we addressed erection hardness: how to attain and maintain a strong hard erection. In this lesson, we’re going to address ejaculation control so you can feel like you’re in control from the start, even if your partner is totally sexy or you haven’t had sex for a while.

How to easily stay in control of your penis throughout foreplay, penetration, and intercourse; including applying a condom and changing sexual positions. What to do when your partner makes happy noises, and exactly what to do to restore full control if you feel like you’re starting to lose it. Then how to coordinate your ejaculation so you feel like a King in bed!

If you don't have any concerns about early ejaculation, just keep this lesson as a reference.

Stay in control of ejaculation

P2 L6: How to Stay in Control of Ejaculation
Total lesson time: 24:27

👉 Being Partner Focused

👉 The Serviceman Technique 

👉 Controlled Foreplay 

👉 Focus on Precision and Accuracy

👉 Directing Penetration

👉 Intercourse: Focus on Maintaining the Required Speed 

👉 Stay Tuned to Your Partner’s Experience

👉 The Emergency Control Brake

👉 Ejaculation on Command

👉 Tips for Controlling Ejaculation

"I used to ejaculate at the beginning of penetration and couldn't maintain an erection after that. I could quickly get an erection a little later but by that time my wife was usually frustrated and not in the mood anymore. This program has been a life saver!!"

jUAN*

USA

P2 L7: Understanding Sexual Positioning

In the previous two lessons, we addressed erection hardness and ejaculation control; so you can easily stay hard AND in control throughout foreplay, penetration, and intercourse. In this lesson, we’ll discuss sexual positioning. How your sexual position can affect your arousal levels, the best sex positions for control and connection, as well as ideal rhythm and timing.

sexual positioning

P2 L7: Understanding Sexual Positioning
Total lesson time: 20:00 (Video 10:22)

👉 The Best Sex Positions for Control and Connection (see Bonus PDF for full instructions including pictures)

👉 Rhythm and Timing: Meet and Greet Technique

👉 Forget the Porn Education

👉 Hard AND in Control Infographic (Bonus)

👉 Penis Size: When Too Big is Causing Issues (Bonus)

P2 L8: Restoring Sex Mastery

In the previous lesson, we discussed sexual positioning; how your sexual position can affect your arousal levels, the best sex positions for control and connection, as well as ideal rhythm and timing. In this lesson, we’ll put it all together so you can restore sex mastery!

restoring sex mastery

P2 L8: Restoring Sex Mastery
Total lesson time: 15:00 (Video 7:06)

👉 Make Sure You Deal with Distractions 2:43

👉 Being Hard AND in Control 3:45

👉 The "As If You Are" Technique 3:47

👉 Action Steps

👉 Links to All Program Resources

"I have been able to fix my problem. I'm able to last longer I have my wife begging and I give her orgasms like no other now and I have also gained in length and thickness."

JOSHUA*

ENGLAND

solve premature ejaculation

👉 BONUS #1: Male Control Checklist

Use this helpful guide to determine the “root” cause of your problem.

This includes the timing of soft erections and early ejaculation: before foreplay, during foreplay, putting a condom on, at penetration time, changing positions, during intercourse. 

Catapulting from losing your hard to ejaculating at penetration time or during intercourse.

Catapulting from feeling overstimulated to losing your erection at penetration time or during intercourse.

Not being able to ejaculate.

This quick reference guide explains them all.

best masturbation practices

👉 BONUS #2: Best Masturbation Practices for Hard AND in Control

Exactly what you need to know to enjoy being hard and in control when you masturbate.

This bonus resource will ensure you continue to improve your timing, especially after you have been through Part 2 of the program.

hard and in control truths

👉 BONUS #3: 25 Truths Revealed for Hard AND in Control

Fascinating insights to restore your sexual confidence: Common mistakes to avoid at penetration time... Why erection and ejaculation drugs fail...

Real reasons why you are losing control over your arousal (hint: this usually has nothing to do with health, stress or your relationship!)

How to directly influence testosterone and other sex hormones without changing your lifestyle or the foods you eat.

The simple technique which will do more to make you feel at ease than 3 years of therapy. And so much more. Knowledge is power!

BONUS #4: The Best Exercise for Sex

The only physical exercise of the program, this is the very best exercise to improve the overall strength of your penis.

It increases health and blood flow and can increase your penis size as well.

This resource is especially helpful if you have been experiencing erectile dysfunction, are over 40, or have lost penis size over the years.

plank missionary position

BONUS #5: The Best Sex Positions for Control and Connection

Includes full step-by-step instructions with images.

Rather than aiming for many positions which can result in sexual failure, it is far better to initially focus on these mutually enjoyable sex positions that provide the greatest degree of control and connection. 

I also explain how to coordinate thrusting movements with your partner so you can feel completely in sync, as well as how to get your rhythm and speed just right!

BONUS #6 Hard AND in Control Flow 2.0
Step-by-Step Infographic. Discover at a glance how to immediately increase your hard erection or increase control over ejaculation.

when penis size is an issue

BONUS #7: Penis Size: When Too Big is Causing Issues

A common misconception among men is that a large penis is preferred by a partner. This usually isn't true. The reality is that a large penis presents its own set of problems, especially at penetration time.

This report explains step-by-step, how to guide a woman to be more accepting of having a larger size so you don't scare her off wanting sex.

It also explains exactly what to do to make penetration easier for both of you.

If your woman complains of inner vaginal dryness or pain, the insightful answers shared in this report can also restore her overall desire for sex!

"Your strategies are hands down the best so far from the other techniques out there. I'm very thankful to you."

Hattan*

USA

prepare woman for sex

👉 SPECIAL BONUS #1: How to Prepare a Woman for Sex (Even When She's Not in the Mood!)

I’ve treated over a thousand male clients who thought that solving their early ejaculation and weak erection issues would automatically re-engage their woman’s interest in sex. Sadly, that’s not always the case.

Women aren’t wired sexually like you, so you need to turn her sexual switches on in the right order. Gain her interest. Switch her on. Get her ready for you! Otherwise, she will continue to shrug off your advances... This is not rocket science, but you do need to pay attention.

I’ll explain how to do this so you can switch her back on in a few short minutes, even if you haven't had sex for months!

make a woman squirt

👉 SPECIAL BONUS #2: How to Make Her Squirt! (Be in Charge of Her Ejaculation)

To regain her confidence, excitement and trust, you need to approach foreplay in a calm and confident manner... In this special report, I’m going to teach you EXACTLY how to find her g-spot and clitoris in the dark. A woman's good feeling bits can easily be identified by touch.

You’ll discover exactly how to identify her clitoris and g-spot (and how to stimulate them the right way!) so you never have to poke around, hoping you are pleasing her. Female ejaculation IS NOT A MYTH - and it's easy to achieve when this exact procedure is followed.

Actually this created a great relationship with my partner and now, I can say that we're in the mood. We're happy and there's more trust and love and I appreciate your help. You were very helpful. Thank you so much.

roman*

USA

"Instead of trying to prove myself, it feels so good to lose myself in the moment. Now I can enjoy the person I am with and stop thinking about the results."

DENNIS*

NEW ZEALAND

"PE was an issue for my wife and since we first began seeing each other nearly 20 years ago. It was always a burden in an otherwise solid relationship. I have done most or all of the things you find in books or via urologists to little improvement. PE had always affected us, but it kept getting worse.


I wanted us both to have a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship so I bought Jacqui's program. My wife and I are both really pleased with the results."

MARK*

AUSTRALIA

My promise to You

No more wondering if your problem will ever be solved. Within hours of going through my program, you will start restoring confidence in your ability to engage sexually and connect with a partner on all levels (like the thousands I have already helped!)

Unlimited email support is included which you can access at all times, remember to reach out for support if you want clarity in any area! I do my best to personally answer all emails within 72 hours. 

sex-mastery-hard-and-in-control-guarantee

My 6 month guarantee provides a realistic time frame to reduce the amount of pressure you put on yourself to align this new knowledge and achieve results. 

It’s important not to shortcut the program or stop halfway, so please go through the program from start to finish and implement your complete instructions for six months. 

If you haven’t realized improvement within your 6 month time frame, simply send me your completed program worksheets within the seventh month (so I know you've followed my instructions and put in some effort) to qualify for a refund.

I am confident I have the answers you need to restore a happy and satisfying sex life in a timely manner, so if you prefer my ongoing help to solve your sexual challenges, just ask. 

For help regarding any issues with your account, or any problems with the content, just drop an email to support@endtheproblem.com and I will get back to you and help you. If you have any questions, need any help, some tips and guidance, or to give your valuable feedback, please feel free to also send an email to jacqui@endtheproblem.com 

I look forward to helping you restore fulfillment in this important area of your life when you take action to end the problem.

Jacqui Olliver sex problems expert
Jacqui Olliver

Jacqui Olliver
Psychosexual Alignment Specialist


Recommended and Approved by Doctors

"You are really amazing. Your views about sexual function, human psychology and emotions will one day, change whole of medicine. You have made a programme which is priceless and money can't buy this. Your service to humanity is incredible. You are inventor of a technology which can change life. Your research is priceless. You are a great scientist and an incredible human being. I always recommend your website to my patients."

Dr Vijay Raghavan, Diabetes and Metabolic Specialist for Incurable Diseases

* Disclaimer: Results may vary

>