The definition of premature ejaculation is ejaculating before you or your partner are feeling fulfilled during intercourse or other sexual activity. The timing of ejaculation varies between men, but generally ejaculating within 3 minutes of intercourse is considered to be premature. What is premature ejaculation? Not being able to fulfil or be fulfilled sexually.
Lasting for five minutes is considered to be "average" for men during intercourse but the problem with that is that most women take 15-20 minutes to orgasm. This is one of the reasons why so many women are unable to orgasm during intercourse, because their man doesn't last long enough.
Premature ejaculation (and erectile dysfunction) are caused by a miscommunication occurring between your brain and your body. So in the case of premature ejaculation instead of the dog wagging it's tail... it's like the tail is wagging the dog. What this means is that your penis is ejaculating before you or your partner are ready and you have little or no control over your sexual experience.
The more anxious you become - and thinking about how long you are going to last, the worse the premature problem becomes. Sex can become an embarrassing and labour intensive process as you desperately try to ignore the feelings in your penis so you can focus on completing the job. As you know, this kind of sex is neither fulfilling for you or your partner.
If a man's mind wanders during sex, it can cause him to lose his erection or lose control. This is because the conscious mind can only focus on one task at a time. But you need to focus CORRECTLY during sex - correct focus put you in control of the sexual act.
Not only does a man need to understand how to control the communication between his brain and his penis, he needs to know how to focus on his woman IN THE CORRECT WAY so he doesn't inadvertently put her off having sex with him.
Ideally a man can last for 20-30 minutes during intercourse to ensure he is able to totally fulfill his woman in every respect. Being able to last that long requires an exact step-by-step procedure - much like driving a car. If you focus on the wrong thing at the wrong time, you WILL lose control of your vehicle!
My recommended programs (prerecorded or live consulting via Skype) can enable you to gain the knowledge and understanding required to stay hard and in control during the sexual act - and enables you to understand exactly how to reduce random occurrences of premature ejaculation and other sexual problems in the future. Informative resources are provided to keep as back-up.
My unique focusing technique is frequently recommended by leading medical specialists as it has proven to be very effective at solving sex problems:
I couldn’t believe it! After a lifetime of ejaculating within a minute (and for the past 5 years losing my erection hardness within one minute as well) I was able to stay HARD AND IN CONTROL for over 10 minutes – just 4 days after my session with Jacqui – and the next time I had sex! It’s blown my mind! Every male should have this education!
Dr Sam (surname withheld)
Medical Specialist - Solved PE and ED
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So what is premature ejaculation? PE is ejaculating early - before you or your partner are ready. Most men can solve their premature ejaculation problem by learning how to focus correctly during sex, so they know EXACTLY how to brake safely to stay in control. Contact me today to regain control over sex and provide a satisfying sexual experience for your partner.