Unlock control, pleasure, and emotional connection through Psychosexual Alignment Coaching. I’m Jacqui Olliver, the founder and expert behind this unique approach designed to help you break free from performance pressure and rediscover confidence in your intimacy.
Psychosexual Alignment™ is a neuroscience-based method designed to resolve the root causes of sexual dysfunction and intimacy issues. By addressing the core nervous system and focus patterns that affect sexual wellbeing, my coaching offers practical, lasting solutions tailored just for you.
Psychosexual Alignment is a unique method that goes far beyond traditional sex therapy.
It’s designed to correct the nervous system imbalances and misdirected focus that underlie sexual performance issues, emotional disconnection, and lack of intimacy.
Instead of relying on talk-based strategies or generalized advice, Psychosexual Alignment works at the core level — combining neuroscience, body awareness, and emotional alignment to restore control, confidence, and connection.
Whether you're struggling with ejaculation control, arousal, orgasm, or relationship stress, this coaching helps you shift out of survival mode and into empowered, full-body connection — mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Psychosexual Alignment coaching is for people ready to break free from sexual frustration and create real, lasting change.
I primarily work with men, but I also support women and couples. This coaching is ideal for you if:
Men
You’re dealing with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, or anxiety during sex. You've lost confidence or feel disconnected during sex, and want to enjoy intimacy again without fear or pressure.
Women
You’re struggling with low libido, orgasm difficulties, or body disconnection. You feel emotionally distant or mentally distracted during intimacy, and want to reawaken pleasure and trust in your body.
Couples
You’re facing emotional or sexual disconnection. There’s frustration, mismatched desire, or a lack of intimacy - and you want to rebuild trust, rhythm, and mutual satisfaction.
This is for people who want real results, not just temporary fixes — and are willing to take action toward lasting confidence, connection, and satisfaction.
If you’re fed up with feeling stuck, ashamed, or overwhelmed — and you are ready to change that - you're in the right place.
Psychosexual Alignment Coaching is results-driven, designed to create lasting transformation in your sex life and relationship — not just short-term relief.
Lasting control over ejaculation and erections — without pressure or pills
Calm, confident performance — even under stress or with a partner
Deeper intimacy and emotional connection in relationships
Psychosexual Alignment helps you rewire your response to arousal so you can relax, stay in control, and enjoy deep, confident intimacy — without fear or overthinking.
These aren’t vague mindset tricks or surface-level hacks — they’re grounded, practical tools to create real change.
Reawakening desire and pleasure after periods of numbness or disconnection
Greater confidence in the bedroom and more ease with orgasm
Feeling safe, seen, and emotionally connected during intimacy
Psychosexual Alignment helps you reconnect with your body and pleasure by resolving the stress patterns and mental distractions that keep you stuck.
You’ll learn how to feel safe, confident, and fully present in your sexuality again.
Restored trust and communication around sex
Better rhythm, arousal, and mutual satisfaction
A shared sense of intimacy and renewed attraction
Psychosexual Alignment gives you practical tools to restore emotional safety, spark desire, and rebuild physical and emotional intimacy — together.
No matter where you're starting from, you’ll learn how to create consistent, satisfying sexual experiences — and build lasting emotional connection.
You’re not broken — you just need the right tools to reset and thrive.
Psychosexual Alignment is the real deal when it comes to restoring happy, satisfying sex and intimacy without the use of drugs. The Psychosexual Alignment approach is designed for you to:
Sharpen sexual focus and emotional clarity
Regain control over your body and performance
Increase arousal, confidence, and connection
End fear-based patterns that sabotage intimacy
Learn the secret to consistent pleasure — for you and your partner.
This isn’t about managing symptoms — it’s about transforming how you experience sex and connection from the inside out.
When you learn to work with your body and nervous system instead of against it, breakthroughs come fast. You’ll feel empowered, in control, and finally free to enjoy the kind of sex life and relationship you truly deserve.
⭐ Results are often felt within the first session.
I Was So Proud...
"Last night I shared my session revelations with my partner and this morning I decided to test myself. I was able to arouse myself in about 90 seconds and pull a nearly 100% solid erection out of nowhere!
I didn't even need a fantasy! I was so proud to show her. She was so thrilled and she exclaimed: "OMG, only one session and it's working!"
Just wanted you to know how fun, encouraging, and happy we were!"
Ken, USA*
Efficient, Strategic, and Results-Driven
Psychosexual Alignment uses a 3-step coaching framework:
Assess: We identify your specific challenges and triggers
Align: Shift out of stress mode and into emotional safety
Activate: Practice strategies to rewire your focus, restore control, and reconnect with your body
⭐ Sessions are conducted online for privacy, convenience, and faster results.
You'll leave each session with actionable strategies that lead to rapid results.
"All made sense"
"I was depressed due to a difficult relationship at work. I was hopeful of a solution to the bad emotions and feelings as things were pretty low. The session had fairly simple concepts that all made sense. It gave me hope, that the situation is recoverable by applying some simple techniques to regain control."
Alistair, New Zealand*
"Understand my partner"
"My PE problem was embarrassing and disappointing for my wife. Jacqui's session was simpler than I expected - and the technique is great! The session was relaxed and informal, she is a great counselor. I feel much more in touch with myself, more in control AND I now understand my partner better."
Gary, Australia*
Real Results, Maximum Convenience
Get expert support from the comfort of home
No awkward clinic visits — just honest, focused help
Book times that fit your schedule
Access personalized strategies and support, faster
⭐ You’ll receive guidance that’s tailored and actionable — no fluff, no judgment.
Let’s get you on track to feeling in control, confident, and fulfilled.
It's time to resolve the issues holding you back from the intimacy, pleasure, and connection you desire.
For men: Overcome sexual anxiety and take control of your performance. Reclaim confidence in your body and relationships.
For women: Reignite desire, reconnect with your body, and enjoy fulfilling intimacy on your terms.
For couples: Heal the disconnection. Build back trust, pleasure, and emotional closeness — together.
👉 Book your complimentary session today and start your transformation with Psychosexual Alignment.
Join the many people who finally found the right answers and strategies
Jacqui Olliver
As the founder of the Psychosexual Alignment methodology and published author, Jacqui has helped thousands of men and women easily resolve sex problems and restore emotional connection. Get your ultimate sex education and elevate intimacy to an exciting new level of engagement with Jacqui's Sex Mastery Program for men and women.
I have many success stories to share!
Join my many customers who enjoy success after finishing their Sex Mastery program.
"Within 10 minutes of applying her technique I could already feel my libido switching back on! And now I can orgasm more easily too! ...we both feel increased desire for each other."
- Nikki, New Zealand*
Increased desire
"This is definitely a good program because it teaches how the mind works. Something I’m sure most of us know, but don’t understand how it affects our sex life. It all makes sense now!
- Josh, UK*
It all makes sense now!
"I want to say thank you for your help... I spent this last weekend with my girlfriend and everything went great... It helped my confidence greatly to know that these techniques are working."
- Patrick, USA*
Helped my confidence
Each 60-minute session is a focused, results-driven consultation designed to uncover and resolve the emotional and sexual patterns affecting your intimacy and performance. You’ll gain clarity, confidence, and actionable insights that empower you to take charge of your body, mind, and relationships. Most clients notice a significant shift from the very first session.
What you receive:
60-Minute Private Session: Pinpoint the real causes behind your struggles and discover practical mindset and focus shifts to restore control, confidence, and connection.
Audio Recording: Revisit your session anytime. Hearing your own insights again often reveals deeper wisdom and reinforces your transformation.
Detailed Email Summary: You’ll receive clear notes highlighting key takeaways, expert observations, and personalized strategies to apply in daily life.
Email Support: After your session, you’re welcome to share updates and reflections. Writing out your progress deepens awareness and activates your inner intelligence — leading to even greater results.
Absolutely. Online consultations are just as effective as in-person sessions — often more so. You can relax in the comfort of your own space, where privacy and discretion are guaranteed. This ease helps you stay open and focused, leading to quicker insights and better results.
I primarily work with men, but I also support women and couples. Whether you're dealing with performance anxiety, orgasm difficulties, emotional disconnection, or relationship stress, my Sex Mastery program — built on the groundbreaking Psychosexual Alignment method — provides targeted, practical solutions to help you regain confidence, connection, and control.
You’re in the right place. These are the most common concerns I help clients overcome. Whether your challenge is physical, emotional, or a combination of both, I’ll provide tools and guidance to restore your confidence, connection, and control.
No. Traditional sex therapy often focuses on talking about your problems. Psychosexual Alignment works directly with the nervous system and focus patterns to resolve the root causes — fast. It’s practical, empowering, and results-driven.
Most clients notice major breakthroughs within 1–3 sessions. For deeper or long-standing challenges, completing the full Sex Mastery program provides a structured path to lasting transformation. I also offer a 3-month support option, which includes dedicated guidance, unlimited follow-up calls, and messaging between sessions — ideal for those seeking consistent momentum and accountability.
No. Many clients begin alone and still experience significant personal and relational transformation. Partner involvement can be incredibly beneficial but is not required.
Most programs focus on mindset or surface-level techniques. I help you retrain your nervous system, attention, and sexual reflexes at the core level. This is why results are often rapid and lasting.
While results vary depending on your commitment and application, most clients notice improvement after the first session. The coaching is built on proven strategies that deliver results - I bring my full expertise, insight, and support to every session.
Due to the extensive time and preparation involved for each session, I maintain a no-refund policy. This ensures I can fully commit my energy to getting the best results for every client - which is why I am highly recommended. If you're ready to take action, you'll find the support and solutions you're looking for. I look forward to working with you on this transformative journey.
"We have a very joyful life after enrolment with your program... I often see such patients with stress and a lot of problems with their partners, I always prefer them first go through your programs."
- Dr Ejay Shah, Pakistan
Medical Specialist
"Jacqui has been one of my favourite guests, she is open, honest, thoughtful, prepared and has a true willingness to help people reach their happiest sexual experiences."
- Alison Donaghey,
The Domino Thinking Podcast
"I have tried many types of drugs, consultation with many therapists and many herbs and Ayurveda. Your discovery and solution to sex problem in males is 200 times better than all other pills and suggestions combined."
- Dr Vijay Raghavan, Award-Winning Diabetes and Metabolic Specialist