Does Penis Size Matter for the Best Sexual Performance?

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For a man who thinks his penis is small, penis size really does matter. This is because it can affect his ability to focus his attention correctly on the sexual act. If he’s analysing his penis length or his penis girth and comparing it to the average penis size… then he may lose control over the level of arousal his penis is feeling, and ejaculate early or lose his hard erection.

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So What is the Average Penis Size?

Strangely enough, the size of your penis can depend on your country of origin. Statistics indicate that the average penis size for men around the world differs immensely: 

average penis size per country

The average erect penis size is between 5 and 6 inches with a circumference (when fully erect) of 3.5 inches. If you think you have a small penis then you can take the following actions to increase your penis size. But first of all, let's clarify this important point:

Does Penis Size Affect Your performance?

A satisfying sexual performance requires balancing your sexual focus between you, your partner, and the actions you are performing. 

When you're constantly worrying about your penis size and if it's measuring up for your partner then it's going to cause problems. Your brain needs to receive specific "signals" during sex to maintain a hard erection and control the timing of when you ejaculate.

Regardless of the size of his penis, a man needs to know how to operate it at the optimal level. This requires controlling his movement along the Arousal Scale, from getting an erection, to then staying hard, to ejaculating only when both partners are ready.

If you're male and your mind is distracted it can result in an ongoing problem of erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation or the ability to achieve ejaculation. Erectile dysfunction is most often caused by focusing your attention on the wrong thing at the wrong time. So yes, if you are worrying about your penis size while you are having sex (or about to have sex), then it can cause erectile dysfunction symptoms by making you lose your hard erection.

Conversely, if you indulge in too many fantasies about having a bigger penis, it will overstimulate your brain sexually and cause premature ejaculation! When you’re constantly analysing the size of your penis, sex stops being fun for you and your partner because you’re not paying attention to each other!

Best Exercise to Increase Penis Size

If your penis is shorter than 6 inches, you can do the following exercise to increase penis size and strength naturally. While technically the penis isn’t a muscle, when you increase the size and strength of the muscles which support the penis it can also increase your penis size. It usually takes between 5-12 weeks to see a noticeable difference in size; when exercising to increase your penis size.

If the penis is short and fat, it won't make any difference to a woman's pleasure. This is because a fat penis will always rake over his (woman’s) g-spot. The g-spot is called this, because you have to make the shape of a “G” with your finger to reach it, when opposite her.

Inner vaginal orgasms are much more enjoyable for a woman than a clitoris stimulated orgasm. This is because the clitoris is hypersensitive to touch after an orgasm, while her g-spot keeps wanting more!

If your penis girth is less than 3 inches in circumference when fully erect, I recommend that you take these penis enhancing actions. This will ensure that you can satisfy your partner in bed:

1. Do this best exercise to increase penis girth naturally (see link below)
2. Flex your penis when you are entering (or exiting) her so your penis bounces against her g-spot

A short and thin penis needs the no.1 exercise protocol to make his penis bigger. Download the instructions here (no email required.)

It’s important to note that without understanding the sequence his brain requires to stay hard and in control, this second option can cause a secondary issue of premature ejaculation. Because the very act of flexing the penis can put too much of a man’s attention in his penis. This can make him too focused on his own arousal.

So Does Penis Size Matter to Women?

It’s rare for a partner’s satisfaction to come from the size of her partner’s penis! It’s important to note that the inner workings of a woman’s vagina also vary in size. While many men want a big penis, many women don’t have enough “room” for one!

I have treated several men with a very large penis who had problems getting a partner. This is because as soon as a potential girlfriend saw the size of his penis, they ran for the hills! While some women like a big penis, most women just want a man’s penis to be a comfortable fit for her. More importantly, she wants is to be free from sexual malfunctions such as premature ejaculation and weak erections.

While your penis size can affect a partner's sexual experience, it doesn't determine how good you are as a lover.

So, penis size doesn’t always matter. Let me reiterate. It’s not size that counts, but how you use it. When you have total confidence with your sexual technique, you will be able to stay hard and in control and your penis size won't be an issue for either of you.

Jacqui Olliver
Psychosexual Relationship Specialist at End the Problem, Jacqui Olliver is a published author who renews relationships by solving people's emotional and sexual issues. In the past 7 years, she has helped over 1,000 men, women, and couples restore a relaxed, happy, and fulfilling sex life and enhance their overall connection. Click here to check out her programs or to book a complimentary strategy session and start getting real answers to solve the real problems.

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