Humans have evolved from the necessity of sex for the production of children to random acts of self-indulgence for pleasure. It's within this realm of pleasure that either heaven or hell will exist and cause all the sex problems. From erectile dysfunction to premature ejaculation, can’t get a hard, can’t orgasm, low libido and can’t ejaculate, sexual problems are frustrating to all concerned!
One of the greatest realizations a human being can experience is the ecstasy of a sexual act in all its expressive actions. Many people are unable to control themselves sexually and are therefore left with an unfulfilling experience. This questions their ability to participate as a sexual partner by being unable to satisfy their partner in bed.
The slippery slope to failure is usually manufactured in their own brain
I must firstly add that for instance PE, ED, can’t get a hard-on, can’t ejaculate all stem from the same erotic zone but for different reasons.
Therefore, I have included all of these problems in my "Sex Mastery: Hard AND in Control!" program for men. This is because males can transition from PE to ED to can’t get a hard on, to can’t ejaculate. Or any variation of the above! The answers to all problems are presented there for that reason. One payment will get the solution to all 4 problems and all the variations of them so you don’t have any confusion later!
Conversely, women can transition from low libido to vaginal dryness to being unable to achieve orgasm. Which is why the answers for all these female problems are contained in my sex mastery program for women: "Easily Achieve Orgasms!"
My unique Sex Mastery programs contain all the info your brain requires, to solve these sexual dysfunctions.
Do you understand how emotional and sexual attraction need to work?
If your partner has lost interest in sex or you don't understand the needs of the opposite sex, that's another matter. Lack of emotional and sexual confidence can easily kill attraction.
I also offer you the ability to go deeper into solving the surrounding mysteries around sex, love, and attraction.
To resolve issues at a deeper level to fully engage (and keep) a partner’s interest for life requires more in-depth knowledge on how to balance the essential components of sex, emotion, and attraction.
My advanced training includes specific techniques to help you be in charge of emotional and sexual attraction for life.
What Causes Sex Problems?
This is one of my most frequently asked questions. Contrary to the popular diet and exercise myth, the most common cause of sex problems are lack of correct Sexual Imprinting and Mental Contamination.
Imprinting is a physical reaction to a thought which has been instilled usually by a learning process. This is how a chick and mother bird are able to recognize each other amongst a flock of 5,000 other nesting birds.
Both have imprinted the smell, voice, and appearance of each other for recognition reasons. Which means that when she is away feeding, they can find each other upon her return. The chicks recognize the mother who has nested, warmed, sheltered and fed them every day for the last month.
Eventually, public mating of 5,000 parent birds, exposes the chicks to the sexual act which they appear to be naturally aware of. Nothing like a practical demonstration.
Humans on the other hand, usually mate in secret, so there are no visual clues to "imprint" the logical sequence of events.
A Lack of Correct Sexual Imprinting Causes Sex Problems
Mystery surrounds the sexual act and a lot of guesswork is involved. Unfortunately, not all the gaps are filled, so only partial success follows. These skills are not taught in schools or by parents, so learning is non-existent.
This is the main reason for sexual problems such as PE (Premature ejaculation) and ED (Erectile dysfunction) and can’t get an erection. As well as anxiety for both men and women who can't sexually perform.
Everybody is different, so experimentation during the act to find out what works is received differently. This usually shows up as performance anxiety which can lead to loss of libido and unable to ejaculate for men. Being unable to orgasm for women, as well as sexual frustration and a total lack of sexual confidence for both men and women!
As I explained earlier, either he or she is probably not experienced in the sexual act, so confusion follows. A lack of focus and disagreeing thoughts then cause conflict during the act of sex.
The Sexual Union
A functioning sexual union between a male and a female is determined by two factors:
1. How long it takes for her to orgasm
2. How long it takes for him to ejaculate
Now, remember, that a woman can take up to TWENTY minutes to achieve her desired amount of orgasms [say 5]. Whereas a man takes ONE minute to ejaculate. So on that premise, he must keep sexually active for 20 minutes (during foreplay and intercourse) before he ejaculates.
I receive 100's of emails detailing people's experiences involving sex. Any person either male or female who has a problem with sex has "fallen off the bike," and doesn't have the skills to get back on. Often this is due to mental contamination.
For instance, men who for years have practiced masturbation while watching porn and are then confronted with a real partner, are unable to perform naturally!
Or a man who suddenly loses erection hardness or ejaculates early for the first time then starts worrying that this will happen again. The worry then causes the problem, to create an ongoing cycle of frustration and confusion that affects all concerned, and never seems to end.
This is a mental contamination problem.
Mental Contamination and Sex Problems
Women have a tendency (during sex) to randomly think about household tasks which need completing. Indicative of most sex problems where the focus has been contaminated with other thoughts which have no bearing on what is actually happening at the present moment.
The point of this statement is that problems require answers. I have the answers to solve these unwanted sex problems.
I have a unique treatment method which is endorsed by several medical practitioners, after they underwent a therapeutic session to cure the problems they had. Although they are in the Medical Fraternity they could not resolve those issues via standard medical interventions, so I was invited to intervene.
Usually, my treatment to solve the impeding sex problem will only take a few sessions, the success of which can be viewed in my reference section. Then it's a matter of learning advanced skills to ensure your partner is happy with your overall approach as well as your sexual technique. Which is why I recommend my customized 30 to 90 day coaching programs, so you have the complete answer to restore a great sex life.
Whereas mainstream treatment can be ongoing for 4-5 years and involve the dubious use of drugs, which usually have a detrimental effect.
Strategies to Solve Sex Problems
Along with solving the initial problem, I can advise both men, women and couples of advanced sexual techniques and emotional attraction. This enables them to further add to their skillset.
These advanced sexual techniques are usually not included in a routine that has the main focus on "the continuing problem" which you are both trying to sort out.
Remember that the problem that one partner has will adversely affect the other, and then create a problem for that partner! Like a Snowball, the sexual problem for both of you will just get bigger over time and then be impossible to overcome.
After solving your initial problem I will advise you how to expand your sexual skills. I mean, how many males would consider vaginal dryness to be a problem? On the same token who has a problem with sexual fantasies, he or her?
Explanations I reveal will give a clear answer to all the problems including a woman who has lost interest in sex.
This is an overview and explanation of the beginning and possible reasons for the onset of sexual problems of males, females, and couples. This does not include medical reasons but rather the failure to understand the REAL main causes which trigger the problems and their negative effects.
As explained earlier we are influenced by our visual clues. This failure to imprint the correct information will be greatly affected by the mental contamination from other sources. A combination of both will present problems you have no answers to!
"My sexual problems always made me feel bad as a husband. Recently I began to put off having sex because I just knew I was going to fail and it felt horrible knowing that my performance was disappointing and unfulfilling for my wife.
I felt nervous leading up to the session – I mean, I had tried EVERYTHING including the Men’s Clinic and everything they recommended. I tried Viagra – it sort of helped with the erection but the side affects were horrendous so I stopped using it. Then I tried sexual kung fu and all kinds of techniques but nothing cured my premature problem and I continued to suffer from weak erections.
Jacqui’s session crossed the T’s and dotted the I’s for me. It was like the missing link between everything else I had learned. I believe Jacqui’s switching technique is a fantastic tactic!” John
I have treated many men and women globally with their myriad of problems. My Feedback Section is a testimony to my success at solving sex problems and helping men and women achieve a happy and connected life. I have a unique treatment method which is available only here so start getting the problem sorted today.
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