You may have been researching how to solve your sex problems for quite some time now. You’ve read articles, searched forums, researched diet and exercise and may be confused with all the information that’s out there. After all, how do you know what’s true and relevant for you?
In your quest to restore a fulfilling sex life so you can relax and enjoy having NORMAL sex with a partner it's important to differentiate between what’s fact and fiction.
Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction (weak erections) and problems reaching an orgasm are all common sex problems.
Some people believe, “if I exercise enough, my sex problems will go away.”
But why is it that many men and women exercise relentlessly, do a gazillion Kegel’s daily and still suffer from sex problems?
Some people believe, “if I can just find the right foods to eat (or the foods I need to avoid) then my sex problems will magically disappear.”
But why do so many men eat a clean diet, exercise regularly, are classified as “fit and healthy” by their doctor and still suffer from erectile dysfunction?
Some men and women give up and think, “It’s impossible. I’m going to be stuck with this problem for life!”
But how is it I can solve most sexual dysfunctions within a matter of hours, even though most medical doctors will tell you they cannot be cured?
More on that in a minute…
The most fulfilling connection in a relationship requires a mutually happy and satisfying sex life.
A story that demonstrates why solving your sex problems is such an important thing for you to do. You see, you never know what life has in store for you, or what’s just around the corner. And why it’s so important to act before it’s too late.
Back in 2004, life was pretty good other than this one big issue “SEX”. I was in a long-term relationship with a man I loved. We were best friends and he was my life but there was no enjoyment in our sex life.I had never been able to achieve an orgasm and this eventually affected my libido. Not being able to feel fulfilled was a constant strain on my self-esteem and it sucked to constantly feel like our sex life was doomed to failure.
After several years of feeling like I was failing as a human being my growing lack of interest in sex started affecting my partner’s ability to get a hard erection.
I hadn’t given up on our sex life, I read magazines and articles, constantly looking for answers on how to achieve orgasm but none were to be found. Later on in life, I attended counseling for several months which was nice but it always left me wondering if my problem was ever going to be solved.
On the afternoon of the eve of our 15th anniversary, I read an article that said the reason why many women don’t orgasm is because they don’t allow themselves to enjoy sex. This seemed plausible! I didn’t know how to enjoy sex but I thought I’d give it a try.
Later on that afternoon my partner came into my office, sat down, and said, “You know what Jacqui, I think I’ve done everything I came here to do.”
That night, I did my best to relax and enjoy myself during sex. I didn’t orgasm, however, I did feel more connected with my partner and decided this was the start of something wonderful.
But I woke up the next morning to find that he had died during the night. For no apparent reason and with a peaceful expression on his face. Ten years older than me, he was still only four days off his 45th birthday! The coroner couldn’t find anything wrong with him.
It just goes to show, that life as you know it can end unexpectedly.
It was this incident which fueled my quest to figure out how to solve male and female sexual dysfunctions. There was NO WAY I wanted to enter another relationship without knowing how to relax and enjoy a normal sex life! To be able to fulfill and be fulfilled. This became my life’s purpose. Unfortunately, no one was able to provide me with the complete answer.
I spent 8 years researching and developing my own methods, then unique knowledge was passed on to me which provided a missing link.
Over the past decade, I’ve helped well over 2000 men, women and couples restore a fulfilling sex life with my relevant sex education answers. This includes medical specialists who now tell me, “Every person should have this education!”
I provide some of the BEST insights for people looking to solve emotional and sexual challenges. Whenever I’m interviewed on TV, radio or podcast shows I’m always told that my insights are totally different to what everyone else is saying and they always ask me back so I can share more of them!
Here’s what my customers like about my approach to restoring confidence and ease in this important area of your life:
“The slightly undersold approach. I find the “do you want to be a raging bull in bed” approach very off putting. You also come across as extremely genuine which is a difficult thing to put across in the online world.”
“To address the issue properly and permanently, without repeated reliance on drugs.”
“Your discussion on anxiety and not being sure of what to do/expect matched my feelings during sex. Your discussion on how first bad sexual experience can imprint resonated with me. I liked that your approach seems to be like a training guide. And I like the idea of a big picture to work through my premature ejaculation and anxiety issues.”
“Because you promise a different solution than the typical “eat well, just relax and remember it isn’t the end of the world if you can’t have an erection.” I want to have some control and not leave it up to chance whether I perform well in bed.”
“I went through the site fairly thoroughly to determine if it was legitimate, and liked what I saw. You seemed earnest in your writing and videos and I like the idea (and believe) that the issue is primarily mental. I figured the cost for the program was reasonable and worth a shot.”
“Your approach seems more holistic and permanent.”
“Sex is very important to me. After thinking about it I thought the amount of money was better spent on solving the problem than continually buying pills.”
“I watched your videos and everything you say in your interviews and videos sounded like exactly the type of solution I need.”
I care about your ability to feel fulfilled and I can promise you this, emotional and sexual fulfillment become easy once you start giving your brain signals it actually understands.
The only reason people continue to struggle is because they haven’t been given answers relevant to solving their particular issue. The resulting confusion has caused them to be resistant to the fact that they have the problem, and this causes endless negative mental chatter as they continuously try to figure it out. This mental chatter then becomes an additional distraction which contributes to causing the problem!
Here’s why you need to solve your sex problems now:
And it’s the greatest gift you can give yourself. When you have a sexual problem you don’t know how to solve, you’re always going to wonder if you will ever have the ability to feel fulfilled. Whereas when you act on solving the problem by giving your brain the correct sequence to follow, then confidence in yourself and a growing sense of self-esteem become the natural outcome.
Confidence and ease are such important factors in the game of emotional and sexual attraction. Focusing your attention on enhancing your own ability to feel fulfilled will naturally make you more attractive to others. This will not only solve your sex problems, but boost your sense of confidence and ease in your relationships inside and outside the bedroom.
Having a problem which consumes your mind leads your thoughts down some negative paths. This can affect your overall ability to feel relaxed and confident in other areas of your life. Part of my unique sequence which enables you to solve your sex problems and achieve sexual fulfillment also enables you to gain control over the constant mental and emotional chatter.
Without being consumed with “what if” thoughts throughout the day you will naturally feel more relaxed, confident and connected in all areas of your life.
Negative thoughts about sex trigger your brain's stress response which tends to retrigger you, as well as making it difficult to correctly focus your attention. Solving the impending sex problem will let you off that constant mental treadmill. And as you gain the ability to redirect that mindless, negative mental chatter, less emotional reactions such as fear and anxiety will be triggered.
There’s nothing worse than feeling like you’re failing as a human being, I know, I’ve been there. I would go down a path of trying to figure out how to deal with this problem. I’d try something and it wouldn’t work and then become a bit distant in my disappointment.
Yet, restoring my sex life made me feel on top of the world. It restored my sense of confidence, and self-esteem and made it so much easier to relate to others. I finally felt NORMAL.
Here’s what my customers have said about the importance of feeling confident in the bedroom:
“Solving the problem means being able to relax and have normal sex again.”
“Being able to be spontaneous is great.”
“I like feeling like I can move forward with confidence.”
“Having fun sex is a welcome reprieve.”
“When it’s good I have a really good relationship with my partner.”
“It means everything to have confidence with my partner, it means the world.”
“Great sex puts me on cloud nine.”
“I appreciate the presence of a man who knows he’s good in bed.”
I’m totally confident I can help you solve your sex problems and restore a fulfilling sex life today.
"It amazes me how simple and effective your methods are. This is the kind of sex education everyone wishes they had!"
- Deb Morgan,
Relationship Coach & Podcast Host
"Your views about sexual function, human psychology and emotions will one day, change whole of medicine... I always recommend your website to my patients."
- Dr Vijay Raghavan, Award-Winning Diabetes and Metabolic Specialist
"Jacqui's system of connecting the mind and patterns of sex to reclaim your sexual function or enhance your sex is fascinating and insightful."
- Amy Schadt,
Producer, The Unstoppable You
Most of my customers get relief after their first session, and recover completely after finishing the program.
More testimonials here
"Providing good sex makes me feel like a man who's more respected, lovable and willing. Now I am confident in the act knowing I have the control to fulfill both our sexual needs!"
- Nicholas, Australia*
"Instead of trying to prove myself, it feels so good to lose myself in the moment. Now I can enjoy the person I am with and stop thinking about the results."
- Dennis, New Zealand*
Feels so good
"I spent a lot of time “resetting” my brain after a long time of watching porn and it didn’t do a thing. This program was different, it definitely exceeded my expectations."
- Dean, USA*
Exceeded my expectations
As the founder of the Psychosexual Alignment methodology and published author, Jacqui has helped thousands of men and women easily resolve sex problems and restore emotional connection. Get your ultimate sex education and elevate intimacy to an exciting new level of engagement with Jacqui's Sex Mastery Programs for Men and Women
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