Can tantric massage cure my sex problems?
Many years ago, I trained in tantric teachings and I can tell you now that tantra massage is mostly ineffective for solving sexual problems such as early ejaculation, weak erections and problems reaching orgasm. You may be curious as to why, so I have addressed this topic in depth within these tantra massage FAQ.
Can tantra massage cure sex problems?
Tantra massage can enhance your personal experience of the sexual act when sexual problems such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and being unable to orgasm have been solved, BUT tantra massage will not cure sex problems.
To cure sex problems such as PE, ED and being unable to orgasm, you need to understand the order in which your sexual programs must work so you don't confuse your brain by giving it the wrong signals.
What about other tantric teachings? Will they cure male sex problems?
Tantric teachings are more about being aware of all of your senses and being totally present during sex. Becoming more aware of your senses can make you have less control during sex! You need to know how to control your focus and your feelings to stay in control of the sexual act, and this is not explained in tantra.
Why is feeling important?
Feeling is an emotional and physical sensation that needs to be both stimulated and encouraged but with the appropriate end result. Sometimes the feeling sensation can overwhelm the operating systems that your body has set up.
This imbalance is one of the main contributing factors linked to sexual problems. Feeling is controlled by your focus processes, which must be monitored for a man to stay hard and in control.
Erectile dysfunction is the opposite to premature ejaculation – lack of correct sexual focus prevents a man from gaining an erection and/or keeping his erection.
Tantra teaches me to squeeze my PC muscle and do Kegel exercises. Will that solve my premature ejaculation problem?
Strengthening your PC muscle by doing Kegel exercises is a good idea to improve the overall health of your penis BUT if you squeeze your PC muscle at the wrong time during sex, then the intensity of feelings which occur can make you lose control and ejaculate early.
You need to know how to keep your level of arousal within a precise “safety zone” to be able to stay erect and to prevent yourself from ejaculating early. Tantra massage does not teach that.
Why do I feel sexually aroused all the time?
Due to much higher levels of testosterone than a woman, a man’s body can seem OVERWIRED sexually – which means his body often reacts to sights, smells but more often, thoughts which invade his head at the wrong time.
These thoughts may be reactive to the situation he’s in or a fantasy he would like to execute. Due to the fantasy scenario, tantra massage can make an early ejaculation problem worse. Tantra massage can also make men with erectile dysfunction become reliant on it to get an erection.
Sexual fantasies are a double-edged sword when it comes to sexual problems – there is a right way and a wrong way to use them. When used in the right way, you have an effective tool for solving your sex problems, but used in the wrong way you will make your sex problem worse.
Can tantra massage cure premature ejaculation?
The complex breathing and pelvic floor squeezing combination recommended throughout a tantra massage can add to performance anxiety and make premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction worse.
Premature ejaculation also has an emotional element to it. You need to know how to control your level of anxiety so your mind doesn’t go into panic mode – which can make you lose control and ejaculate early. This is also true for erectile dysfunction, with the opposite result.
Can tantra massage cure erectile dysfunction?
Tantra massage has a sexual fantasy element to it which is unrealistic for most partners to participate in. Considering that it’s common for men with weak erection problems to have a partner who is uninterested in sex, this can increase his anxiety as his partner has no desire to engage in sexual fantasies.
Tantra can also cause a man with ED to start ejaculating early.
What causes me to suffer from both PE and ED?
It’s common for a man to start with either of these problems and end up with both of them as he struggles to stay in control sexually. Can tantra massage can make this worse? Yes, because it adds to the confusion.
It’s also common for the partner of a man with weak erection or early ejaculation problems to lose interest in sex after a period of time. This is because the process of sex becomes too nerve wracking and complicated.
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In Summary: Tantra massage will not cure your sex problems.
There is a lot of power waiting to be unleashed in the genital area of your body. This incorporates spiritual, emotional and physical. Your penis does not need to be satisfied – IT IS YOUR BRAIN!! This is also the main area of concentration to eliminate ALL sexual problems including premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and being unable to orgasm.
My unique system teaches you how to correctly direct your sexual focus to moderate your awareness of feeling so you can experience enjoyable sex made easy.
Leading up to the session I felt inquisitive, aroused and expectant. Initially I was looking for a sensual massage which would give me relief, when I stumbled across Jacqui's website. I realized after the session that I could have gone anywhere for a sensual massage and been masturbated, but what Jacqui taught me instead, I couldn’t learn anywhere else.
What I learnt from Jacqui is that there is more to sexual arousal than ejaculating.
I now know how to control myself without feeling frustrated and I am confident that I have ended my chronic premature ejaculation problem too. Jacqui said she would guarantee me a life-changing experience and she certainly gave me that. She is a genuine, thoughtful and caring therapist. I recommend her 100%.
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