The 3 Best Premature Ejaculation Cures

Many of my customers found me because they were looking for a natural and permanent cure for premature ejaculation. It's interesting that professional health websites like mine aren't allowed to use the word cure to advertise their products and services. However, most men with premature ejaculation are looking for the best premature ejaculation cures, so I wrote this post to provide insightful answers to help you get rid of premature ejaculation. With this knowledge you can start restoring a happy and satisfying sex life for you and your partner.

Statistically, 30% of all men are suffering from premature ejaculation and every man and his partner want a permanent cure. This unwanted malady destroys a man's self-esteem by inhibiting his ability to perform normal sex, affects his confidence and causes ongoing worry that he is unable to satisfy his partner in bed. Premature ejaculation has a destructive effect on relationships as both partners struggle to connect and feel fulfilled.

It's disconcerting and demoralizing to have to rely on drugs just so you can last longer!

Do Drugs Really cure PE?

I have successfully treated several medical specialists who told me that the medical profession have no idea how to permanently cure premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.

It's a common (although incorrect) belief among medical professionals that premature ejaculation cannot be cured. Therefore, doctors, urologists, and psychologists commonly prescribe erection enhancing drugs, numbing creams or antidepressants in an attempt to treat premature ejaculation. 

Antidepressants are prescribed with the aim of numbing your awareness of feeling in your penis. Unfortunately, this can lead to erectile dysfunction as your brain doesn't receive enough awareness of sensation to maintain a hard erection. They also lead to what has been described as a numbing of the mind, which tends to lead to more confusion and an inability to balance your sexual focus.

Premature ejaculation drugs, medicines, and numbing creams take away from the spontaneity of sex and often don't work due to anxiety and confusion. It's common for early ejaculation drugs and numbing creams to also cause erectile dysfunction. This happens because they remove too much awareness of sensitivity. Then you have two problems that you are facing.

Erection enhancing drugs do nothing to improve ejaculation control, so it's a mystery why these drugs are prescribed for premature ejaculation. Drugs tend to create more problems than to provide an effective answer. 

Because PE drugs and medications don't educate you about the triggers which cause your premature problem, your issue continues occurring or morphs into two problems - PE and ED. Ongoing sexual dysfunction problems lead to performance anxiety which can then affect your ability to get a hard erection which then causes more anxiety for you and your partner. This ongoing loop causes stress in your relationship and prevents you from feeling like a complete man. This results in confusion and doubt, exactly the help you DON’T need to get rid of PE.

If a sex therapist, counselor or other therapist is recommending drugs for your premature ejaculation problem, or you have been in therapy for months with no improvement, it indicates they don't have the insights required to solve your problem. Realistically, when you apply the correct thought and action sequence during sex which I provide, your brain will respond with the correct responses - so you can stay hard AND in control.

Just make sure you get checked out medically to ensure there aren't any underlying health issues.

Best Treatments to Cure Premature Ejaculation

There are many premature ejaculation treatments available and most don't provide a lasting cure. This is because any mental distractions which occur during sex can re-trigger a previously occurring problem. This puts you back in the worry cycle and trying not to think about that problem occurring. It's like trying not to think about a black car, the more you try not to think about the black car, the more it's image is embedded in your mind.

Whenever you are trying not to think about ejaculating, you are picturing ejaculation. This signals your brain that you want the ejaculation program. Oops... it's not your fault, you've never been taught the complete start-to-end procedure for sex, so you don't know how to give your brain the right messages for your penis to stay hard and in control without any problems.

To cure premature ejaculation you need to know how to deal with the mental distractions which are taking you off your game. FIRST, you must understand the mechanism which brings about the onset of the problem. To delay ejaculation, understand the main causes of PE. Then you can change the outcome.

Therefore, for any of what I recommend to be the 3 best premature ejaculation cures to work, you need to primarily focus on the cause and effect. Know the causes and how they are affecting you, then simply apply the step-by-step procedure outlined in my Sex Mastery: Hard AND in Control program to restore a happy and satisfying sex life.

1. How to Cure Premature Ejaculation: Correct Your Focus

PE is usually (for the most part) a mental contamination problem which is fully explained in my Hard and in Control program. If you are overstimulating your brain with thoughts of sexual fantasies, how great it's going to feel when you're inside that hot, moist vagina and you're constantly thinking about your penis... I can guarantee you are going to lose control and ejaculate early. This is because these thoughts cause you to become hyper-aware of the sensations in your penis. Therefore, ejaculation will occur within seconds or minutes of foreplay, penetration or intercourse.

However, it's not just these thoughts which contaminate your mind and cause you to ejaculate. You may be thinking about how arousing your partner is - or trying not to think about how arousing she is and how aroused you are feeling! Either way, these thoughts are mentally contaminating your ability to stay in control of ejaculation. To naturally cure PE, you need to adjust your focal point throughout the whole sexual act. The exact step-by-step procedure to achieve your ideal outcome is fully explained in my program.

See Also: The Best Premature Ejaculation Treatment

Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation are actually similar problems but caused by different degrees and awareness of stimulation. Many men sense different amounts of stimulation and never reach the point of feeling "safe" and in control. This makes for a stressful sexual experience for all involved because of the uncertainty of the outcome!

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2. The Best Premature Ejaculation Cures Require Controlling Performance Anxiety

Curing PE can only be achieved when you have dealt with the mental contamination problem. This includes performance anxiety. Being constantly anxious and uncertain of the right mechanics which govern the sexual act leaves you with more questions than answers. When your mind is consistently analyzing what's happening with your penis, you can overstimulate your brain and ejaculate early.

The real problem here is that performance anxiety is constantly being brought on because your brain doesn’t have a plan to follow and you are confused as to what you should be focusing on during sexual acts. In other words, the complete sexual strategy to control your arousal levels during foreplay, penetration, and intercourse. Having this correct information can enable you to get an erection and keep it hard, while enjoying sex and satisfying your partner by lasting as long as she (or he) wants you to.

Being able to control the sexual and emotional programs in your BRAIN is paramount. This can enable you to overcome both your sexual anxiety as well as your premature ejaculation problem. By balancing your sexual focus you are able to keep a hard erection, penetrate without any problems and control when you ejaculate.

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3. The Best Cure for Early Ejaculation (in my opinion) is Knowing How to Take Control of the Sexual Act

Experiencing premature ejaculation during intercourse is generally caused by a completely different reason than ejaculating at penetration time. Sometimes you may ejaculate while giving or receiving foreplay. In order to cure premature ejaculation, you require a complete sexual strategy which encompasses the whole of the sexual act. This includes how to control yourself during foreplay, penetration, and intercourse and knowing how to deal with the mental, emotional and physical distractions so they don't take you off your game. 

Foreplay, penetration and intercourse. Each of these sexual "segments" requires it's own specific strategy. Sex isn't just about putting your penis in and hoping for the best - that's a recipe for a big mess to clean up, both inside and outside the bedroom!

The reason why so many men struggle to overcome their premature problem and continue to ejaculate early is because they don't understand the problem!

For instance, Kegel exercises are great for strengthening your penis muscle, but contracted at the wrong time will actually cause early ejaculation. Flexing your penis results in increased blood flow to the penis. While this is good for enhancing the overall health of the penis, if you flex your penis when you are feeling overexcited, it can cause you to ejaculate. This is because the increase in blood flow leads to an increase in sensations.

Performance anxiety is experienced when you are uncertain of how to proceed - of how to take control during the sexual act. With the correct procedure in place, confidence and ejaculation control can usually be restored. Sexual fantasies which currently make you lose control and ejaculate early when used in the right way can become an amazing tool for enhancing your sex life. 

To Cure PE in Summary:

In my experience of helping over 1,000 men and couples solve their premature ejaculation problem, thinking about and acting on the wrong things at the wrong time, is the primary cause of PE. With the correct information and the right strategies in place, you can reduce anxiety and gain complete confidence in your ability to satisfy both yourself and your partner in bed. 

Timing is everything. In my proven Sex Mastery: Hard AND in Control 100% PRIVATE prerecorded program which you can immediately access online, I describe step-by-step, exactly how to easily time specific thoughts and actions so you can stay hard and only ejaculate when your partner wants you to. Please click on the red banner to gain instant access.

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With this knowledge and a bit of practice, many men become able to choose the timing of when they ejaculate so they can time their ejaculation with their partner's final orgasm. 

My recommendations for the best premature ejaculation cures are based on the knowledge of how to synchronize your mind and your penis. This procedure can enable you to maintain a strong erection and always be in control of when you ejaculate. Get started on restoring a happy and satisfying sex life today.

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Psychosexual Relationship Specialist at End the Problem, Jacqui Olliver has helped thousands of men, women and couples restore emotional and sexual satisfaction in their relationships to create a happier life. Click here to check out her programs or to book a complimentary strategy session for real answers to solve the real problems.

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