why recommend Sex Therapy?
When sex problems remain unresolved they become an ongoing cause of stress in a person’s life which can lead to heart disease and other stress-related medical conditions. However, due to the associated shame and embarrassment, people's sex problems are often kept hidden behind closed bedroom doors.
It's time to help your clients take action to restore fulfilment in this important area of their lives.
I'm Jacqui Olliver, Psychosexual Relationship Specialist at End the Problem and published author who renews relationships by solving emotional and sexual issues for men, women and couples. Through my work, I co-developed the Emotional Reset Technique™ which resolves emotional triggers. I'm passionate about helping people develop new mindsets and strategies to overcome life challenges.
Why It’s Important to Recommend Sex Therapy to Your Clients
WebMD reports that a staggering 43% of women and 31% of men report some degree of difficulty with sexual function.
One of the biggest precursors for mental health issues and heart disease in men can be the occurrence of sexual "malfunctions" such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and being unable to ejaculate. These sexual function issues cause a huge amount of performance anxiety as well as mental, emotional and relationship stress which can eventually lead to a man questioning his reason for living.
Similar issues are experienced by women, with her problems usually being a low libido and problems reaching orgasm. These can also be the result of her partners’ own sexual dysfunction issue.
How Sex Problems Affect Your Client’s Health and Wellbeing
The stress associated with these sex problems can cause a plethora of mental health as well as physical health issues so need to be dealt with in a timely manner. Constantly ruminating about these issues and contemplating future failure results in stress hormones constantly being triggered. This results in high cortisol levels which can lead to heart disease and other serious health issues.
Another common result of these problems is relationship breakdown which compounds a person’s feelings of diminished self-worth, isolation, stress and anxiety.
Research has shown that social relationships influence the health outcomes of adults. "Lack of social connection has a significant effect comparable to other leading indicators of risk for early death," says Julinanne Holt-Lunstad, PhD, a professor of psychology at Brigham Young University.
Feeling alone, Hold-Lunstad says, ranks up there with smoking, obesity, and physical inactivity in terms of its effects on your health. Across 148 studies with 308,849 participants, results indicated a 50% increased survival rate for participants with stronger social relationships. Therefore physicians, health professionals, trainers and educators should take social relationships as seriously as other risk factors that affect mortality and quality of life.
Solving emotional and sexual problems which lead to social isolation should now be considered a priority.
My Unique Approach to Solving Sex Problems
While sex education provides essential knowledge on sexual health and safe sex, it is sadly lacking in the essential knowledge required to initiate and complete sexual intercourse. This results in much confusion and guesswork involved in the act and is why so many people experience sexual failure.
Therapists, counsellors and even sex therapists are very good at validating their client's feelings, providing helpful insights and offering counseling, medications or techniques to treat the symptoms, which can all be helpful. Unfortunately, they do not address the “root cause” of sex problems and emotional connection issues which is caused by using the wrong technique at the wrong time. This is what I correct.
Recommended by leading medical specialists, I advise clients on the correct thought / action sequence required to complete a mutually fulfilling act. My protocol is based on the physiology and mechanism of doing sex. The majority of my clients report solving their sexual function and emotional connection issues without drugs, either within 1-3 consultations or via my online pre-recorded programs.
“Your discussion on anxiety and not being sure of what to do or expect matched my feelings during sex. Your discussion on how first bad sexual experience can imprint resonated with me. I like that your approach seems to be a training guide. And I like the idea of a big picture to work through my premature ejaculation and anxiety issues.”
My pre-recorded treatment options enable clients to resolve these issues in a timely manner privately, with 100% confidentiality and only reach out if they have further questions.
Feedback from Medical Professionals
“I’ve been to medical conferences all around the world, searching for an answer to my ED problem which started occurring after prostate surgery. No medical specialists are able to provide a permanent solution for erectile dysfunction – they have no idea how to solve it.
Jacqui offered a completely different perspective – I am amazed at how well this technique works! Sometimes I lose focus and start losing the erection – but now I know how to immediately get it back!”
Dr Brian (surname withheld)
Medical Specialist, Erectile Dysfunction after Prostate Surgery
"You are really amazing. Your views about human psychology and emotions will one day, change whole of medicine.
You have made a programme which is priceless and money can't buy this. Your service to humanity is incredible.
You are inventor of a technology which can change life. Your research is priceless. You are a great scientist and an incredible human being.
I always recommend your website to my patients."
Dr Vijay Raghavan
Diabetes and Metabolic Specialist for Incurable Diseases
"I couldn’t believe it! After a lifetime of ejaculating within a minute (and for the past 5 years losing my erection hardness within one minute as well) I was able to stay HARD AND IN CONTROL for over 10 minutes – just 4 days after my session with Jacqui – and the next time I had sex! It’s blown my mind! Every male should have this education!"
Dr Sam (surname withheld)
Medical Specialist, Premature Ejaculation & Erectile Dysfunction
I'm totally confident my unique insights will set your clients up emotionally and sexually for life.
How to Refer Your Clients to Solve Their Sex Problems
Because sex is not a topic openly discussed, it can be an awkward topic to bring up for a verbal discussion when you are unsure how to approach the subject. This is why these issues so often go unresolved. Contemplating how a client or patient may react may trigger a stress response in you and prevent you from communicating clearly.
However, with a clear format to follow and easy referral strategy, you will be sure you are helping your clients deal with potential issues in a timely manner so they can restore fulfilment in this important area of their life.
When a person feels emotionally triggered, they often forget what they are told, so it’s best to give a verbal suggestion followed by a more detailed recommendation via email. The best way to approach this topic is to make your initial verbal recommendation toward the end of their consultation with you when they are feeling more at ease:
Verbal Referral to Clients
Example of Verbal Recommendation:
“With regards to dealing with stress in your life, I recommend Jacqui Olliver at EndTheProblem.com to resolve any emotional and sexual challenges which may be contributing to ongoing stress, as these can have a huge impact on your mental, emotional and physical health and wellbeing.”
By following the verbal recommendation with an email containing an actionable message for reference (see example below), you are demonstrating that you really care.
Email Referral to Clients
When people are emotionally triggered, their prefrontal cortex can shut down in varying degrees which affects their memory and ability to think clearly, so the email follow-up is very important.
I recommend following this example format:
Email subject: RE: Recommendation
I’m providing this referral so you can restore fulfillment in this important area of your life if it is troubling you.
Following up with the verbal recommendation I made, Jacqui Olliver at www.EndTheProblem.com solves many emotional and sexual issues which may be contributing to ongoing stress in your life.
The majority of Jacqui’s clients report solving their sexual function and emotional connection issues in a timely manner without drugs. Treatment options include 1/1 Skype video consultations, or pre-recorded online programs where you can resolve these issues with 100% confidentiality in the privacy of your own home.
Jacqui is kindly providing a 20-minute complimentary strategy session to assist my clients in restoring wellbeing in this important arena of their lives: https://www.endtheproblem.com/complimentary/
It’s important to resolve these issues to support your mental, emotional and physical health and wellbeing.
As a medical, health or fitness professional, you are in the prime position of helping clients resolve their emotional and sexual challenges by providing an opening such as this which removes all awkwardness. Many people who suffer from these problems do so in silence, so this simple approach is much appreciated and as a result can have a profound effect on their mental, emotional and physical wellbeing.
Related: Emotional Reset Technique