How to Make Your Hand and Blow Jobs Unforgettable!

Schedule your complimentary session now:

​Schedule your coaching session now:
Sign Up for a Complimentary Coaching Session Today!

10 Tips to Make Your Hand and Blow Jobs Unforgettable

If you want to make your hand and blow jobs unforgettable, you need to view sex from the male perspective. What makes a hand and blow job great for a man? Giving his penis your full attention, stroking all the right places and making sure you apply the right pressure!

make your hand and blow jobs unforgettable

When giving your man a hand job or blow job, always make sure that you’re comfortable, and adjust your position as required. Remember to ask him to communicate whether he wants it fast or slow, and let him know early on if you don’t want him to ejaculate in your mouth.

These essential tips will make your hand and blow jobs unforgettable! I've also included the best tip to make giving oral an unforgettable experience for a woman as well, providing mutual satisfaction.

#1 Fully Engage to Make it Memorable

Unlike women who can like foreplay all over, a man is singularly focused on his penis being pleasured, so make sure you give it your undivided attention.

#2 Lube It Up

Sometimes a man has to work up to an erection which means it can be challenging to get a firm hold of his member. The best lube ever, is a small amount of coconut oil. This is really good for your skin and when you move on to intercourse, penetration is easy because his member is like a moisture seeking missile!

#3 Make it a Double

Your best blow job involves your hand as well as mouth and vice versa when you are giving a hand job. Using one hand to hold his penis steady enables you to fully engage your mouth around the head of his penis which is where most of his sensitivity is.

unforgettable hand job and blow job techniques for men

#4 Surprise Him

Gently clasping his balls while you are watching Netflix can be a delicious way to excite his interest - and keep his interest on you.

#5 It’s All in His Head

Get your guy started by making suggestive comments about what you’re thinking of doing to him. Talking dirty can help him get in the right mindset to give him a strong erection. Just be careful you don’t excite him too much, as it may cause him to lose control and ejaculate early.

#6 Hold Him Steady

Make a “V” shape with your thumb and forefinger to support the base of his penis and add a slight downward pressure. This will hold his penis in place as he becomes erect, so it doesn’t bounce around too much.

#7 Stretch It

With one hand holding his penis in place, use a small amount of coconut oil in your other hand, slowly stretching out the length of his penis with your thumb pointing down toward his balls. Move your hand over the top of this penis and down the other side. Then alternate the position of your hands so you’re providing a wringer effect, up, over and down, up, over and down.

best oral and foreplay techniques

#8 Juice His Lemon 

Stack both hands on his shaft, one on top of the other then twist your hands slowly in opposite directions. Take your time and vary the pressure to tantalise his penis while you gently stroke and squeeze.

#9 Tickle His Head 

The head is super-sensitive, so make sure it’s well lubed (and your mouth is not dry if you’re sucking it). Use one hand to stroke him from the base of his penis to the head, then with your other hand gently squeeze and play with the head of his penis, especially around the rim.

#10 Aim for the Sweet 2

The two most sensitive spots that you need to pay the most attention to are the frenulum (the rim under the tip of his penis) and the perineum (feels like a small dent just beneath his balls). Gently stimulating these at the same time will make his eyes cross over in ecstasy.

shoulder rub bj

Bonus Tip: The Shoulder Rub BJ

This is the best tip to make giving a blow job an unforgettable experience for a woman as well, and encourages mutual participation. It can be hard work giving a BJ, so this technique provides mutual benefits, rewards and satisfaction ?

The Shoulder Rub BJ is a great way to encourage your man to give you a shoulder rub and for a man to encourage his partner to give him oral! You give him a blow job/hand job combo while he massages your shoulders. This is a great option for mutual deliciousness and can slow down your man’s awareness of sensitivity to prevent him from ejaculating in your mouth by accident due to him becoming over-excited. 

Start by sliding down the bed so your bottom is on a slight diagonal and your head is resting on his lower abdomen. Clasp his penis below the head using just one hand and slightly push downward with your hand as you gently suck the head of his penis and massage it with your tongue (as though you are sucking on a lolly).

As you massage his penis with your mouth, your man gently massages your shoulders and the back of your neck.

When your mouth starts getting dry (or you need to take a breath through your mouth), stop sucking and pull back slightly, placing your tongue against the rim of his penis to hold it in place while you quickly inhale or swallow. Without missing a beat, you can return to sucking and sliding, while your hand gently squeezes and glides up the lower length of his penis.

NOTE: When giving your man oral, you don’t need to put the full length of his penis in your mouth. Most sensitivity can be stimulated around the head and outer rim of the head and you can use your hand to move the length of his shaft from the base to the head.

Final Thoughts

Most men are thrilled when his partner shows enthusiasm to engage in sexual activities. By giving him unforgettable hand-job and blow-jobs, you can quickly help to restore passion and sparks back into your relationship. Since men are predominantly wired sexually and connect through intimacy, this will help him restore a strong emotional bond and connection with you.

Jacqui Olliver
Psychosexual Relationship Specialist at End the Problem, Jacqui Olliver is a published author who renews relationships by solving people's emotional and sexual issues. In the past 7 years, she has helped over 1,000 men, women, and couples restore a relaxed, happy, and fulfilling sex life and enhance their overall connection. Click here to check out her programs or to book a complimentary strategy session and start getting real answers to solve the real problems.

Leave a Reply 6 comments

close

Want to Start Improving Your Sex Life? 

  Get the 5 Crucial Rules of Sex FREE:

​All information is kept safe in accordance with our Privacy Policy