How to Make Your Hand and Blow Jobs Unforgettable!

10 Tips to Make Your Hand and Blow Jobs Unforgettable

If you want to make your hand and blow jobs unforgettable, you need to view foreplay from the male perspective. What makes a hand job and blow job great for a man? Giving his penis your full attention, stroking all the right places and making sure you apply the right pressure!

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These essential tips will make your hand and blow jobs unforgettable! I've also included the best blowjob tip to make giving oral an unforgettable experience for a woman as well, providing mutual satisfaction.  

Foreplay is the time where you and your partner prepare each other for intercourse. The most important thing for you while giving foreplay, is making yourself comfortable and adjusting your position as required.

Unlike women who can like foreplay all over, most men are singularly focused on their penis being pleasured, so make sure you give it your undivided attention. Remember to ask him to communicate whether he wants it fast or slow, and know that it's perfectly ok to let him know early on if you don’t want him to ejaculate in your mouth.

#1 Surprise Him with an Unexpected Treat

Gently clasping his balls while you are watching Netflix can be a delicious way to excite his interest - and keep his interest on you!

#2 BJ Pleasure Starts in His Head

Get your guy started by making suggestive comments about what you’re thinking of doing to his penis, it can help him get in the right mindset to give him a strong erection. Just be careful you don’t excite him too much, as it may cause him to lose control and ejaculate early.

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#3 Less Lube to Prepare for a Hand Job

Sometimes a man must work up to an erection and it can be challenging to get a firm hold of his member, so don’t use lube until he’s erected.

#4 Hold His Penis Steady

You can make a “V” shape with your thumb and forefinger to support the base of his penis and add a slight downward pressure. This will hold his penis in place as he becomes erect, so it doesn’t bounce around too much.

#5 Stretch Out His Penis for the Ultimate Hand Job

With one hand holding his penis in place, use a small amount of lube or coconut oil in your other hand, slowly stretching out the length of his penis with your thumb pointing down toward his balls. Move your hand over the top of this penis and down the other side. Then alternate the position of your hands so you’re providing a wringer effect, up, over, and down, up, over, and down.

#6 Juicing His Lemon

This handjob technique can blow his mind! Stack both hands on his shaft, one on top of the other then twist your hands slowly in opposite directions. Take your time and vary the pressure to tantalize his penis while you gently twist and squeeze.

#7 Tickle the Head of his Penis

The head of the penis is super-sensitive, so make sure it’s well lubed (and your mouth is not dry if you’re sucking it). Use one hand to gently squeeze between the base of his penis and the head, then with your other hand gently squeeze and play with the head of his penis, especially around the rim.

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#8 Aim for the Sweet 2, for Hand and Blow Jobs

The two most sensitive parts of a man's penis that you need to pay the most attention to are the frenulum (the rim under the tip of his penis) and the perineum (feels like a small dent just beneath his balls). Gently stimulating these at the same time will make his eyes cross over in ecstasy.

#9 Make it a Double: Blow Job and Hand Job

Your best blow job involves your hand as well as mouth and vice versa when you are giving a hand job. Using one hand to hold his penis steady enables you to fully engage your mouth around the head of his penis which is where most of his sensitivity is. If you’re planning to do a double handjob and blowjob, don’t use lube.

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#10 The Shoulder Rub BJ - Best Blow Job Tip, Ever

This is the best tip to make giving a blow job an unforgettable experience for a woman as well as a man, and encourages mutual participation. It can be hard work giving a BJ, so this technique provides mutual benefits, rewards and satisfaction!

You give him a blow job/hand job combo while he massages your shoulders.

The Shoulder Rub BJ is a great way to encourage your man to give you a shoulder rub and for him to encourage you to give him oral!

This is a great option for mutual deliciousness and can slow down your man’s awareness of sensitivity to prevent him from ejaculating in your mouth by accident due to him becoming over-excited.

Start by sliding down the bed so your bottom is on a slight diagonal and your head is resting on his lower abdomen. Clasp his penis just below the head using just one hand and gently squeeze his penis as you take him in your mouth, flattening your tongue against the head of his penis (as though you are sucking on a lolly).

When your mouth starts getting dry, stop sucking and pull back slightly, placing your lips against the rim of his penis to hold it in place while you swallow. Without missing a beat, you can return to sucking on his penis like a lolly, while your hand gently squeezes just under the head of his penis.

As you are massaging his penis with your mouth, your man gently massages your shoulders and the back of your neck, so it’s a win/win.

NOTE: When giving your man oral, you don’t need to put the full length of his penis in your mouth. Most sensitivity can be stimulated around the head and outer rim of the head and you can use your hand to move the length of his shaft from the base to the head.

Final Thoughts

Most men are thrilled when his partner shows enthusiasm to engage in sexual activities. By giving him unforgettable hand-job and blow-jobs, you can quickly help to restore passion and sparks back into your relationship. Since men are predominantly wired sexually and connect through intimacy, this will help him restore a strong emotional bond and connection with you.


Developer of the Psychosexual Alignment method and published author, Jacqui Olliver has helped thousands of men, women and couples restore emotional and sexual satisfaction in their lives. Click here to check out her programs or to book a complimentary strategy session so you can save time, stride forward with confidence, and enjoy a happy and fulfilling life.

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  • I am from US! You have mentioned coconut oil as the best lube but my BF is allergic to it so which lube would you recommend?

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